Hey, Faggot:
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If he’s telling me the truth–that there’s nothing I should be doing differently–why can’t I make him come? In 14 years of fucking, I’ve never had this much trouble getting a guy off. Does a guy’s state of mind have much to do with whether or not he comes? I should mention that during foreplay his preejaculate streams out in what seems like an excessive amount. Could this be a factor in what takes him so long? –Can’t Get Him Off
The amount of preejaculate a man produces has nothing to do with his “inability” to come during anal, oral, or vaginal intercourse or from good old-fashioned hand jobs. With apologies to Ethan Mordden: some men are leakers. And some men, like a lot of women, require a very specific type of stimulation in order to get off. Men with this “affliction” are rarer than women, but they exist, and they deserve our support. While most men can come pretty easily–sometimes too easily–and since most men can come from a wide variety of stimulation (anal, oral, manual, telephone, telephoto, telecast, etc), women who encounter that rare male who has to, say, rub himself against her from behind to get off often wonder what is wrong with (a) him, or (b) her.
Hey, Ed:
Hey, Tong:
