I am a 17-year-old girl who doesn’t believe in casual sex. While all of my friends are relishing the thought of doing it at college, I’ve made the decision not to have sex until marriage. I’ve had the opportunity to have sex many times and have rejected all of them. I’m not asking for advice or approval, but I would like your readers to know that women (or men) who hold out for sex don’t just exist in a convent. It doesn’t mean I don’t want to, either. Can I be assured that there are others of my kind out there, or am I part of a dying species?
Third, the young men and women profiled in stories about hip young virgins are often the subject of unflattering follow-up stories. It seems a lot of kids who make a big public show of their virginity wind up either getting knocked up or knocking someone up. My advice: You’re better off being as casual about not having sex as your friends are about having sex, otherwise you’re simply tempting fate to mess with your life. If you run around making grand pronouncements about your abstemious intentions, fate may not be able to resist sending a very sexy boy and a very broken rubber your way.
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Hi. I am a straight guy with a girlfriend and a problem. My cock is decent sized–perhaps a little too decent. So decent, in fact, that all seven inches won’t fit in my girlfriend’s pussy. Is there anything I can do about this?
I found your response to the 15-year-old girls looking for vibrators to be grossly negligent. You failed to mention the drawbacks of using a vibrator, the most important of which is loss of sensitivity. By the time these girls are ready to “settle down,” normal sex will feel as if they douched with Chloraseptic before getting their groove on with their mate. A little more info, please. The cons are just as important as the pros.
Confidential to Thigh High in Saint Louis: If you want to make money off your attractive, in-shape bod but don’t want to show “full T & A,” then don’t bother applying to work in a strip club. There are seven or eight Hooters in Saint Louis–why not be a Hooters girl?
