I’m a gay black male with a foot fetish. I’ve tried to indulge my fetish with hustlers, but either they were not interested or I wasn’t attracted to their feet. However, I have a straight male friend with perfect feet. He knows I’m gay and that I have a foot fetish. Should I ask him to indulge me in a little foot worship and risk losing his friendship, or satisfy my urges elsewhere? I’ve tried personal ads and foot clubs, but no one’s feet get me hot like my straight friend’s.

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But don’t take my word for it. I approached a few of the straight guys here at the office, all in their late 20s and early 30s, and confronted them with this hypothetical: If a gay friend with a foot fetish asked nicely, would they let him “worship” their feet? And could they remain friends after he asked?

“I have got the ugliest feet of anyone I know,” said Ben, age 31, who blushed prettily when confronted with this hypothetical. “I had ski-boot problems when I was a kid. I have bone spurs, my big toes are huge and bent on 45-degree angles toward my little toes, and I have athlete’s foot. I don’t think I would be real comfortable with anyone slobbering over my feet. It’s too weird and my feet are too ugly. And they smell, too.”

I am a 24-year-old breeder female who can’t figure out what to call a turn-on of mine. If his dick and balls brush against my feet when my boyfriend goes down on me, I go insane with desire! Would this be considered a foot fetish? Or does a foot fetish require being turned on by feet themselves? Define this quirk of mine! –Sensitive Feet

I’m a 32-year-old black male living in Chicago. I am attracted to ladies with attractive lady feet. I’ve taken out ads in fetish magazines in hopes of meeting a woman who shares my obsession but did not get a single response. I want to meet an attractive lady who wants a man to kiss and lick her feet on a daily basis. Is there any place I can actually go in Chicago to meet attractive ladies who share my obsession?