My husband has a foot fetish. He loves to hold me down and tickle my feet. He even goes so far as to tie me up and tickle my feet for ten minutes at a time without stopping. No matter how much I beg him to stop he continues. When I ask him what it is about tickling me that gets him off, he says he doesn’t know, he just gets off on it. I talked to a friend about this stuff and she thinks it’s sick. She said that tickling past the point of discomfort is torture. She says that when he ties me down and tickles my feet and will not listen to my pleas for mercy that this is a form of abuse. My questions:
–Little Mrs. Tender Foot
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- Your husband ties you down when he tickles you because you let him tie you down. Look, I know from personal experience that it’s difficult to tie a person down who’s resisting. Indeed, the chief irony of bondage sex is that you need the complete and total cooperation of your “helpless victim” in order to render him/her helpless and proceed to victimize him/her. If you don’t enjoy being tied down and tickled, don’t let him tie you down.
I am a single heterosexual woman in my 20s. Practically every man I meet tells me how good-looking I am, but I have one major flaw, one I’m certain would turn these men off. I’m hairy. The hair on my arms and legs is light, I wax my mustache once a week and tweeze hairs from my chin and cheeks. People who see me with clothes on have no idea I have to wax my nipples and “happy trail,” or that the light fuzz that starts at the nape of my neck leads to a patch of thick fuzz at the small of my back and continues all the way to my butt, which is covered in dark “peach fuzz” that turns thick and dark around my butt and through to the front to my rather wide bikini line.
I need some advice on the best way to fasten him to the bed. He has to be totally helpless, of course, but I also need full access to his body. Spread-eagle would make him helpless, but I wouldn’t be able to roll him over. If I tie his wrists behind his back and tie his ankles together I could roll him around, but not onto his back. All the other ways we can think of have similar problems. Can you suggest a safe and comfortable way to tie him to my bed? –Nurse Ratchet
