Hey, Faggot:
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What’s more, she claims not to be able to bring herself anywhere near orgasm by any method. My observation is that she seems afraid of a potentially involuntary response. Should I consider her the proverbial “frigid” woman? She isn’t cold, really. In fact, she’s very much interested in sexual contact. But she can’t come. She likes intercourse and lubricates well, but I’ve done all the usual things to no avail. Should I move on to someone new? Is there any hope for my girlfriend? I’ve told her that for me, something vital is missing in our love life, but I think she really has no idea what I’m talking about since she’s never experienced orgasm nor, apparently, any heightened sensations that might lead in that direction. Is she simply phobic?
Hey, NA:
–Stirrup Shy
I am a 30-year-old female having a problem paying my bills. I was wondering if you know how I can start a 900 phone-sex line at home, if that is possible. Please let me know. I need to get out of this sinkhole that I created.
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