Hey, Faggot:

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What are your thoughts on a married man who decides he no longer wants to wear traditional men’s underwear and wants to wear women’s underwear instead? My husband says he is tired of wearing plain white cotton briefs. He says it’s no big deal because he is only interested in the fit and feel of women’s underwear and nothing else. My husband is 44 years old, in good health, and a totally “normal” male. We have three kids and a good, active sex life. He showed me a sample of what he had in mind and they were OK, I guess. Soft, nice fabric just like he said he wanted. No frills or lace, but definitely a woman’s panty. Should I accept this “change” and not worry about it? Is he telling me the whole story?

Very few women have foot fetishes, so if you limit yourself to dating women who share your passion you’ve effectively shrunk the pool of women you can draw potential partners from. So cultivate a few interests besides feet. A woman who may enjoy having her feet worshiped is probably not gonna be “interested in developing a friendship” based solely on her feet or on discussions of women’s feet in general. Women, like men, want sex partners who have varied interests, sexually and socially. If all you think about is feet, well, most sane people–even other foot fetishists–will think you’re kinda creepy.

Hey, NN: