I’ve been going out with a guy I’m in love with for two years. I’m 16, he’s 18. He says it would be OK for me to do things with other people, short of any actual sex acts. The person I have the most interest in besides my boyfriend is one of his closest friends at our high school. My boyfriend knows I’m attracted to his friend and told me it’s OK. His friend, though, told me he’d feel like he was stabbing my boyfriend in the back. I want to at least kiss him without him thinking I’m an unloyal slut-type person. Help!
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If your boyfriend is into it, throw a party. If you can initiate a three-way make-out session with this other boy, he’ll know he isn’t stabbing his friend in the back (since his friend will be there with him), and no one will think you’re an unloyal slut-type person. They’ll know.
There’s a rampant rumor in our high school that semen has six calories per “dose.” Is this true? If so, what are the “nutrition facts” girls need to know before we swallow anything? –Weight Watchers of Second-hour Study Hall
–Confused in Carolina
If you do nothing and Jesse Camp OD’s or drops dead, I don’t wanna see anyone on MTV blathering about how sad it is, if we’d only seen this coming, what a shock, blah blah blah. I could see it coming in my hotel room, for Christ’s sake. Or maybe you don’t care. You’d get a weekend’s worth of material out of it. Would MTV do a weepy Jesse Camp retrospective, or would you kick it over to VH1 for a Behind the Music special?
